Day 10-Memories

There is something about going back to a place you have lived in for a long time and relive all moments.Nostalgia is an emotion I think most humans do understand. I went through a wave of emotion today..some good, many unpleasant and some so random that I wonder why the brain decided to store that information in the first place.
Have you ever associated a place with a smell?
I have!
As I crossed a very familiar place, my nose almost picked up those smells and transported me to a familiar yet uncomfortable zone.
A juice shop where I had a mosambi juice one random day, an icecream parlour which united me with my childhood friend, the photocopying shop in the college where we used to copy copious amounts of notes of some studious girl in class, the familiar bus route that I used to take every single day for 3 years, the shop where I bought some beautiful clothes for a very unpleasant event.
There is something about memories....they have a certain colour..that fills your rather white canvas so instantly…
Thank God these are memories..and these aren’t reality.

Thank God while some of them have been happy thoughts ...many have been lessons!

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